From Denny: Sometimes, it’s a good idea to think back on a relationship to see how it began and what makes it work well. There are a lot of opinions about what it takes to have a great marriage as there are different styles of marriage. Somehow, as lately I've been hearing about various friends and work acquaintances divorcing because of life's stresses, it caused me to reflect upon my own relationship.
Loving You
When we first married you nurtured me back to trusting
You held me, comforted me and restored my confidence in others.
You helped me heal deep soul wounds so I could truly live again.
You were patient loving me when you were not a patient man.
You were obvious about loving when you were a shy introspective man.
You supported and encouraged though you had never known abuse.
Over the years we saw changes around us in the world and inside us.
We continued to laugh a lot and often; we kissed daily our morning hello.
When we parted for work, we blew kisses at each other and “I love you too.”
As I strengthened I became your anchor in the storms of Life, returning your Love.
Job loss was greeted as “So, who cares? We will carve out another."
Financial dips of income from one year to the next was met with “We will rebuild.”
When severe illness visited our doorstep we pulled together and survived.
When disappointments harangued us we swept them away with the wind.
No matter what came at us, we pulled together and solved the problem.
Best friends and lovers, wife and husband, we have built a life time.
We have more than memories after decades of partnership and marriage.
We fell in Love at first sight as two old souls who suddenly recognized each other.
We fell in Love, stayed in Love - even through disagreements and misunderstandings.
We live in Love with a deepening relationship worth more than anything we could want.
What we want, we have: loving you…
Denny Lyon
Copyright 19 November 2009
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Photo Credits
Heart Photo by suchitra prints @ flickr
Wedding Ring Photo by Hammer51012 @ flickr
Bride descending the staircase photo by tostadophoto.com @ flickr
Bridal couple in the ocean photo by millzero @ flickr
2 comments:
That is what real love and a great marriage is about. Communication, patience, understanding and forgiveness. My wife and I have been married now for 19 years and we are still learning new things about each other. Thank you for giving us a sneak peak into your life.
Hi, Chris, thanks for visiting! It seems like there will always be issues in Life to make us think, test our resolve and cause us to reach deep within for answers. What I've found most interesting about such a long term trusting relationship is discovering new things about yourself as well as your partner! :) I think the most intriguing thing about Life is creating new ways to respond - it's those intense subtlties that make Life engrossing... Thank you for sharing your wonderful relationship!
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